Looks like a male to me maybe even a herm.
thicker, sturdier stalks with fewer leaves on male plants
Check the joints on the stalk for male flowers. The little balls that grow on the joints of the stalk (where the other branches meet the main stalk) are the main indicators of male plants.
Unless you’re keeping that plant to harvest seeds it’s best to toss it. I understand waiting to see though.
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